¡ ¡ DECIDE ↊... ! !
OWN YOUR LIFE!
>> by Owning YOUR SYSTEM <<
Do You Know the Feeling of merely Existing - NOT quite LIVING - NOT quite being You.. the You YOU Want ↊ Be.. Long ↊ Be / Live...?
Being "guilty" of mainly going through the motions... acting according ↊ a script that you may or may NOT have written & chosen yourself...
Yet, far from a life you can desire or want - leave alone being proud of...
What's the Reason of Your Shortcoming? What's the Reason that You HAVEN'T Shown Up && Still DON'T know How ↊,
4 You & What You Want & Value...?
KNOW¡! It's nothing outside of you that you have or DON'T have - get or DON'T get - can gain or loose...
At the end of the day it's all about YOU! Your MENTAL & INNER GAME . . . the Habits & Routines It Builds & Creates Around "You"!
↪ about . . . YOU FEELING SAVE ENOUGH . . . STRONG ENOUGH . . . so YOU OPEN UP . . . & SHOW UP ¡ !
. . . so YOU HAVE the COURAGE ↊ TRY & FAIL . . . getting up again & again & again... adjusting re-, re- & re-adjusting & re-trying ¡ !
C O N S I D E R . . . that Your Life ISN'T sth. that HAPPENS ↊ YOU... BUT... it's sth. YOU CREATE, INVENT & SHAPE?!
WHAT IF... you have always been the one who created & built the life & You you know as you/rs?
It seems ↊ be a ridicule question or thought-experiment, since on the one hand... of course it's our life. Who else's?! Who else lives & creates & builds it?!
Yet, on the other hand... if it is so... why do we... why would we build & create a life we DON'T want... like... or could NOT proud of...?!
What is the difference between you & your life now ↊ such a reality? >> A Life by Design vs. A Life by Default <<
What does it take... 4 you ↊ actually & finally step in↊ the Narrator- & Creator-Role of Your Life instead of jumping in↊ & following mindlessly the "good old" Narration-Stream, we all are so used ↊ follow? The common & well-known path that hardly ever had anyone at any time led ↊ a happy or fulfilling life...
What Does It Take... ↊ Communicate & Stand 4 Your Dreams & Desires? What Does It Take 4 you ↊ open up & show your heart ↊ the person & quests that mean most ↊ you?!?
It sounds simple. It is simple, in theory - yet, 4 some of us, 4 those of us who have known hurt & pain... such a "simple" can be a far cry from easy.
These sites are 4 all of those. People who have been broken... who are broken && DON'T know how ↊ put their life.. their different puzzle pieces... themselves back together.
Those who are NOT willing ↊ accept cheap explanations or excuses 4 why their life's & they & things are the way they are - but are willing & eager ↊ face the viruses & errors that are conditioned in↊ their system . . . ↊ break up the self-sabotaging habits & routines, ↊ finally & eventually grow in↊ the person & life they so desperately long ↊ be, have & live.
HOW ↊ DECONSTRUCT YOUR ARMOUR... So... You CAN get rid of the layers that keep you away from that & those you actually want & need ↊ have within your life. So... You BREAK OUT & FREE of the Shell that DOESN'T only serves you as armour, that protects you, BUT ALSO... as PRISON that holds you hostage.. that keeps you separate & locks you in.
Your Life SHOULD BE YOURS! NOT just 4 you, but all the people & missions closest & most important ↊ your heart.
YOU Should determine what it is about - with who or how you spend it / invest your time, energy & attention!
&& This all goes down ↊ GAINING C O N T R O L OVER Y O U R M I N D & S Y S T E M !
Learn HOW 2 take Back Ownership Over Your Mind && System ¡ !
Everybody tells us WHAT ↊ Do... What ↊ Think & Believe - What ↊ Desire, Value & Aim at. Yet, no one teaches us HOW 2 Claim Ownership Over Our Own Mind!
HOW ↊ Reason, HOW ↊ Think, HOW ↊ Decide & Choose . . . HOW ↊ Manage & Use Our Own Mind in an effective & efficient way
>> HOW ↊ Concentrate & Focus. . . HOW ↊ Set Goals. . .
&& Maybe even more importantly, How We ARE Trained && Conditioned, pretty much like every other animal - in some ways maybe even more & stronger so, since we are the animal with the least inborn instincts! Who we are is what we learn ↊ be & express! It's NOT Who We Truly & Fully Are - or all we can Be/Come!¡! Just a Selection of Character-Treats which Are Supported & Nurtured in the Environment We Grew Up In.
This is what these pages are about! The FUNDAMENTALS! The BASICS! The ROOTS! The FEW THINGS, the trunk of the tree, so ↊ speak, which is the origin of the countless branches, leave alone leaves which split off the trunk & main branches..., && therewith sets the tone, nature & character 4 all the other further, later aspects which go down ↊ it & grow out of it.
This Bases on the Belief that you can work yourself tired, exhausted & frustrated eventually, by trying ↊ fix every individual leave or branch of your sickly life... yet, you wouldn't ever see the end of it. O R ... You could change the ground your tree is rooted in. Make sure that the soil is healthy.. therewith you have a solid, well nurtured trunk... so the rest of the tree will be & get well nurtured as well && therewith healed automatically, over time. It means ↊ heal the cause instead of fighting endlessly & tirelessly the symptoms.
Dive In... 2 Find Out!
NOTE: You Can't Get Wet, From the Word Water!
The Human Conditioning. How 2 Train A Human Being?!
The modern, western societies love their minds! Their seemingly faultless ability 2 think & reason - decide/choose & act consciously & intended. Yet, more often than not are we lived by others & exist 4 their purposes & interests, because we DON'T own our own minds! We are trained 2 act in certain ways, claim certain positions & roles, in life & society, which more often than not DON'T serve us ourselves or align with our desires & values...
Areas, Aspects & Layers of Humans Experiences & Expressions
In order 2 manage & master You & your System, you have 2 know, understand & be aware of the individual areas, aspects & layers which determine & order & interpret your experiences & therewith reality. The whole goes down 2 its individual pieces which all on their own influence & set the flavour of the finished, complete dish.
The Mental Game - Does Knowledge, Fact or Truth Even Exist? & What Consequences Does It Have?
The myth about the human freedom. It's a beautiful phantasm, injected into individuals minds, that says that a person without physical visible chains is free. Yet, most aren't even close 2 aware of their own imprisonment by their own mind. They don't own their mind - their thoughts or thinking & therewith are NOT able 2 own their lives!
Sources 2 Dive into!
"INSANITY:
Doing the same thing over & over again
& expecting different results."
referred 2 Albert Einstein
"2 live is 2 suffer,
2 survive is 2
find some meaning in the suffering."
Friedrich Nietzsche
CORE QUESTIONS
NOTE: Questions ARE the Origin of Every Thought! KNOW the Questions WITHIN YOUR HEAD!! Which drive your everyday actions & overall trajectory.
Why Does the Mind Matter? - It's Role & Importance
Understand that your mind is in many ways your most fundamental working basis / aspect & layer. It's where your consciousness & with it your intentions, your choices & decisions are formed & set 2 work 2 interact with & express themselves in the world.
It's pretty literally the driver-seat of YOUR LIFE! It's up 2 you 2 decide, 2 take the wheel in your own hands or 2 let it run by whoever or whatever comes along & shows more interest in using you & your life than you, yourself, 4 yourself.
What 2 Get Aware & Conscious of... 1st >> 2 then Get Intended >> 2 Own Your Choices / Decisions & Actions, Eventually.
You have 2 have become aware of the role your everyday thoughts play in your life. They are the building blocks your life is made of & build upon!
Your thoughts express your focus & your focus defines into what direction you are moving, advancing & growing. Meaning: determines who & how you become!
Who Am I? & How Important Is That Question / Knowing the Answer 2 It?
In case you fall into that soo easily & tempting trap most fall into, at least at one stage in their lives, then KNOW: You are neither your past nor your current circumstances!
They are the results of your past! The result of past choices, decisions & actions. They are NOT YOU!! They are the result of habits & routines that you have learned most likely from the family & environment you have grown up in.